Anawack is the person who made it popular to let turn on their consoles with accounts in activities
(or whatever) to allow the community to do certain glitches without asking a friend for help. Today, “joining Anawack” simply means joining an AFK
account (whether set up by the real Anawack or not).
In fact, anyone can be used to replace an AFK account.
Yes, you need to add the account as a friend then wait for him to accept your friend request. Once done, you will be able to join him. However, most of the available accounts are already full of friends, so you may not be able to add them...
To replace an account by a friend, you must ask your friend to put his account in the same situation as the account you want to replace (situation is indicated on the cards above). If the account you want to replace is in a public session, with free aim and in the settings of an activity, your friend must do the same.